Lakhwinder’s Journey: A Dream of Family Fulfilled
Patient Details:
- Name: Lakhwinder Rehal
- Residence: Auckland, New Zealand
- Treatment: IVF with Gender Selection
- Treatment Cost: $10,300
- Clinic: Takara IVF Bangkok
- Facilitator: PlacidWay
A Life Full of Love, But Missing One Piece
Lakhwinder and his wife, Manpreet, had built a beautiful life together in Auckland. They were a close-knit couple, deeply rooted in their Indian heritage, and had always dreamed of having a family with both sons and daughters. With one beautiful daughter already filling their home with laughter, they wished to balance their family with a son.
For years, they had tried naturally, hoping for another child, but faced disappointment time and again. It wasn’t just about having another baby—it was about completing the family they had always envisioned.
"We felt incredibly blessed to have our daughter, but deep down, we wished to give her a little brother. It wasn’t about preference—it was about balance, about fulfilling a dream we had since we got married."
Challenges in New Zealand – A Roadblock to Their Dream
Despite their strong desire, pursuing gender selection in New Zealand was impossible due to strict legal restrictions. IVF was available, but selecting the sex of the baby was not permitted unless for medical reasons. The couple felt helpless, searching for options but running into dead ends.
"We were willing to go through IVF if that’s what it took, but we quickly realized that in New Zealand, we didn’t have a choice in selecting our baby’s gender. It was frustrating to know the technology existed, but we weren’t allowed to use it."
They considered traveling to other countries, but many options were too expensive, or the legalities were unclear. As time passed, their hope started to fade.
A New Path – Searching for Possibilities
Determined not to give up, Lakhwinder began researching online. He found stories of couples who had successfully undergone IVF with Gender Selection in Thailand and other countries. He read about clinics in the U.S., Cyprus, and Thailand. After careful consideration, Thailand stood out—it had advanced medical facilities, experienced doctors, and most importantly, gender selection was legal.
Still, doubts lingered. Was it safe? Would the clinic be trustworthy? Would the process feel daunting in a foreign country?
"The idea of traveling to another country for treatment was intimidating. We worried about everything—language barriers, whether we’d find the right clinic, and if the process would work for us."
Finding Guidance Through PlacidWay
One night, after hours of searching, Lakhwinder found PlacidWay. It seemed too good to be true—a platform that could connect them with reputable clinics worldwide. He reached out, and to his surprise, he received a detailed response almost immediately.
The representative at PlacidWay provided information about Takara IVF Bangkok, a highly rated clinic specializing in IVF with gender selection. They connected Lakhwinder with the clinic’s team, answered all his concerns, and provided transparency about costs and procedures.
"Speaking with PlacidWay was a turning point. They answered all our questions and gave us the confidence to move forward. For the first time, we felt hopeful that this could actually happen."
The Difficult Decision to Travel
Once they decided on Takara IVF Bangkok, the next challenge was planning the trip. The cost was a concern, but they decided it was worth it and used their savings to fund the procedure. Leaving behind their daughter for several weeks was the hardest part, but they knew this journey was for their family’s future.
As they packed their bags, emotions ran high. Excitement, nervousness, and hope all blended together.
"The night before we left, I looked at my wife and knew this was the right decision. We were nervous, but more than anything, we were hopeful."
Arriving in Bangkok – A New World of Hope
The moment they landed in Thailand, they were greeted by a vibrant city full of life. The warmth of the people and the organized system at Takara IVF Bangkok reassured them. The clinic was modern, clean, and felt welcoming.
Dr. Somjate, the lead specialist, met them personally and explained every step of the procedure in detail. His calm and knowledgeable demeanor put their minds at ease.
"When we met the doctor, all our worries melted away. He was kind, professional, and patient. We finally felt like we were in the right place."
The IVF Process – A Journey of Patience and Emotion
The next few weeks were filled with medical procedures, daily injections, and emotional highs and lows. The egg retrieval went smoothly, and soon after, the embryologists performed PGT (Preimplantation Genetic Testing) to determine the embryo's gender.
After an anxious wait, the doctor shared the results—they had healthy embryos of both genders. With careful consideration, they selected a male embryo for transfer.
"The moment we heard that we had a healthy boy embryo ready for transfer, we couldn’t stop smiling. It felt like everything we had gone through was leading to this."
The embryo transfer was quick and painless, but the hardest part was waiting two weeks for the pregnancy test. Each passing day felt like an eternity.
The Moment That Changed Everything
Finally, the day arrived. They sat in the clinic, hands clasped tightly, waiting for the results. When the nurse returned with a smile and said, "Congratulations, you’re pregnant!", tears filled their eyes.
"Hearing those words was the most emotional moment of our lives. We had dreamed of this for so long, and now it was real."
Returning Home – A New Beginning
When they arrived back in Auckland, their family greeted them with excitement, eager to hear the news. A few months later, they had their gender reveal—confirming that their dream had come true.
Holding their newborn son in their arms months later, they knew every step of the journey had been worth it. Their daughter was overjoyed to have a little brother, and their family felt complete.
"Looking at our baby boy, we knew we had made the right choice. We are forever grateful to PlacidWay and Takara IVF for making this possible."
A Message to Others Who Dream of a Complete Family
For couples struggling with infertility or dreaming of gender selection, Lakhwinder has one piece of advice: Don’t let fear stop you.
"It’s easy to feel daunted, but if this is your dream, go for it. PlacidWay helped us find the best option, and Takara IVF gave us the gift of a lifetime. Don’t give up—there’s always a way."
If you are considering IVF or gender selection, PlacidWay can help you find the best options worldwide. Start your journey today.
Disclaimer: This is a personal story shared to inspire others considering medical tourism. Experiences and results may vary for each individual. Always consult a medical professional before making any health-related decisions.
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